A Thousand Dusty Steps


Some weeks I fill multiple journal pages. Others, I sit tapping my pen on the paper, gazing out the window, searching for something to write. Most of the time, that's actually a good thing. The big ideas, the dramatic events, the overwhelming emotions often arrive on the trouble bus.

An ordinary week, one without much to report, is frequently a week in which nothing went terribly wrong. And there is a quiet gratitude in that, a thankfulness for ease and simplicity. Honestly, even when big things come, be they good or bad, most of life is lived in the simple and ordinary.

So the journal sits open, and I find myself giving thanks for the small things, realizing that small things are what most of life is made of.

In a world that rewards the dramatic, the visible, and the measurable, small things rarely get counted. We are surrounded by a culture that is always asking: What did you accomplish? What did you produce? What can you show for it?

Here is what I keep returning to, and what I find so life-giving about the spiritual life: nothing is wasted. Every experience, every genuine moment of care, of attention, of struggle, of love matters to God and is taken up into the ongoing life of the world. God receives it all.

That means your ordinary week has sacred weight. The conversation that felt unremarkable. The patience you barely managed. The grief you carried quietly. The beauty you noticed and didn't have words for. These aren't footnotes to your spiritual life — they are your spiritual life.

I believe God is present in the grand and the glorious. I also believe the divine lure toward wholeness and love is woven into the texture of everyday life, in small kindnesses, in quiet persistence, in the ten thousand ordinary choices we make to show up for one another. God is not watching from a distance, tallying our grand gestures. God is present in each moment, receiving what we offer, working with it and with us, moving us toward something more beautiful than we can yet see.

This is, I think, one of the most quietly radical things our faith asks us to believe: that the small is not opposed to the sacred. The divine is not only found at the mountaintop, but also in the valley, and in the thousand dusty steps between.

So as you move through this week, Reader, I hope you'll carry this with you: you don't have to do something extraordinary to participate in something sacred. You already are. Every breath you take is a testimony to the boundless love that beckons and embraces us. The small moments are enough. They always have been. They are, in fact, exactly where God tends to show up. Take a breath, give thanks, and be present to the moment. That's the fiLLLed life.

Live a fiLLLed life,
Melissa

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Hi! I'm Melissa.

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